Not long ago, newspaper columnist Marsha Lederman received a note from a friend saying “she was sorry about the horror show” because “she knows I feel all of this evil so deeply.” “Thanks,” Marsha responded. But then she asked herself, “which particular horror show was she referring to? There
are so many options.” So, in a Globe & Mail Column entitled “From This Week’s News, You Can Choose Your Own Horror Show,” she identified a number of recent events that have left her deeply troubled. Her list included:
– The looming possibility that the Trump administration will impose 25-per- cent tariffs on Canada, beginning February 1.
– President Trump’s call for a ‘clean out’ of Gaza” and “about sending (or cleaning out) displaced Gazans to Jordan or Egypt, as if they were not actual human beings who longed to return to their homes (or the site of their homes) and rebuild their houses and lives.”
– And Elon Musk’s address at a rally of the far-right, anti-immigrant AfD party of Germany, shortly before the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz, where he “urged them not to be ashamed of their country’s history.”Lederman’s list or horrors went on. So, she wondered, how do we cope?

These powerful words remind me of the request Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde made to Donald Trump last week, and of the Jesus’ message to the people of Nazareth long ago. Such messages, alas, aren’t always welcome. But they are very important.
I look forward to seeing you this Sunday at St. Mark’s at 10:30 am.

This can happen at school, in workplaces, and even among family and
friends – and when it does, some people get left behind. What’s more, it’s often the people who stand on the sidelines and refuse to get their hands dirty who then turn around and criticize those who are struggling. “It’s human nature, I guess, because we’ve all thrown the stones, and we’ve been the recipient,” Cotton notes. “But it serves no purpose other than to break each other down incrementally, and sometimes worse.”

 Sadly, this phenomenon is far from new. Indeed, the Biblical story we’ll focus on this Sunday (the wedding feast at Cana) reveals that even Jesus had moments when he didn’t want to involve himself in someone else’s problem. So we’ll see how he dealt with this temptation, give thanks for those who lift us up rather than bring us down, and ponder what it can mean to step up to the plate and not walk away in times of need. It should be an interesting morning, and I really look forward to seeing you this
coming Sunday at 10:30 am.

Last Sunday morning, Grace Sheppard invited us to submit some stories about our mothers for inclusion in a book that the St. Mark’s UCW will be publishing in the spring. Her words promoted me to think a bit about my own mother, Dorothy Manson (nee McKay), and a couple of important lessons I learned from her. Mum was raised on a farm in southern Manitoba and went on to teach elementary school in Winnipeg. She loved what she did, but like all single women who taught back in the 40s and 50s, she had to give up her job when she got married. So she moved to the farm with my dad, I came along, and a new chapter began. But she’d lost an important piece of her identity. So once I started school, she began driving into Winnipeg a couple of evenings a week to take the university courses she needed to upgrade her credentials and return to the classroom. Doing so took courage and dedication. She’d been out of school for a long time so being a student again wasn’t easy – it took her several years of hard work to get her degree – and her home and farm responsibilities were also heavy.

Somehow she managed to juggle it all. And her efforts were rewarded when she was offered a tailor-made kindergarten position that gave her a number of happy and fulfilling years back in the classroom. Over the years, I learned much from my mother’s example – including the importance of “working hard and doing what you love.” And I’d hunch that all of us can also think of someone – be it a mother, grandmother or other important female figure – who’s taught us some important lessons. So I hope you’ll take the time to think about that special person and share some of the stories and memories you have of them. For if my experience of doing so is any indication, you’ll be glad you did.

As the calendar turns to a new year, ideas abound about what we can do to bring health, joy and peace into our lives in 2025. Among other things, we’re encouraged to exercise more regularly, change our diet, and set some specific goals for the new year. These and other similar suggestions are well-meaning, and can indeed be helpful.

But one of my favourite writers, Anne Lamott, offers another suggestion. Take time to pray. And lest we find this to be a daunting prospect, Lamott reminds us that we only have to remember three simple words to do so: Help. Thanks. And Wow. For these three prayers address most every circumstance and need.
I believe she’s right. So as we begin another year at St. Mark’s, I hope we can remember to offer these three prayers whenever they may be appropriate. When challenges appear, we can ask God – and one another – for the help we need. When things are going well, we can offer thanks to the Creator and to those whose work has brought these blessings to fruition, and express our gratitude. And when surprises occur and unexpected opportunities present themselves, we can respond by saying “wow,” and embrace the new and exciting possibilities that are before us.
It remains a privilege for me to be in your midst, and I’m very much looking forward to the year ahead. So I hope to see you this coming Sunday morning at 10:30 at St. Mark’s. And I pray that 2025 will be a year rich in blessings – for us and the world.

As 2024 draws to a close, some of us may start thinking about making a
few New Years resolutions for 2025. I think the practice can be useful, but
have found that making them is a lot easier than carrying them out.
Take exercise, for instance. Every January I vow to spend more time on
the exercise bike, and every year my good intentions soon go by the
wayside.

Therefore, I can readily identify with the character Hi from the
comic strip “Hi and Lois” on one New Years Day morning. Lois wakes up at 6 am with a big smile on her face and says, “a new day, a new year, and a new beginning! Right, Hi?” Hi opens one eye and grunts. Lois shakes him awake and says, “wake up dear. Today’s the day you begin your new exercise routine!” “Oh yeah, right,” Hi mumbles. “I’ll start with the sit-ups.” Lois goes to make coffee and hears the expected counting, “1…2…3…4…5… but then there’s silence. She then discovers that Hi has gone back to bed, and is fast asleep with a contented smile on his face. “Well, so much for that resolution,” she says, and goes back to bed herself.

Making and keeping New Years resolutions can be fraught. Nevertheless, taking some time to set some goals for another year can be a useful exercise. And that’s also true for the church. Indeed, research reveals that many thriving congregations engage in an annual practice of identifying one or two main priorities for the coming year, and then develop a plan on how to tackle them. Without specific goals, churches, like individuals, can easily fall back into familiar routines and neglect matters that may require more attention than they’ve previously received. So the coming of a new year can be a time to take stock, re-assess some existing practices and priorities, and focus energies on the things that matter most.

So, as this year of transitional ministry, we’ll be striving to do just that over the next several months. I believe that the Spirit of God is alive and at work here at St. Mark’s, and that some exciting possibilities for our future ministry may well exist. So I’m looking forward to the months to come!
It remains a privilege for me to work with all of you during this time of transition. May 2025 be a year filled with blessings for each one of us, for our congregation, and for the world.

Over the last year, I’ve had a chance to spend some time in the beautiful
Stella Maris Catholic Church on the east side of Saint John. Kelly’s last
three choir concerts have been held there – so I’ve had many opportunities
to look around the building and learn more about its history. Among other
things, I’ve discovered that “Stella Maris” means “Mary, Star of the Sea,”
and that over the years Mary has often been called on to intercede on
sailors’ behalf as well as to offer protection to those who live by the ocean.

Even today, many continue to turn to her for help and guidance, and
several lovely images of the virgin can be found in the Stella Maris
sanctuary.

As a Prairie Protestant farm boy who was raised thousands of miles from
any ocean, much of this is new to me. But like St. Mark’s, the church I
grew up in at least paid regular attention to Mary during the Advent and
Christmas season – and we’ll be doing the same this coming Sunday. In particular, we’ll focus on her “magnificat” and discover (possibly in some surprising ways) how she believed God to be at work – in her life and in the world. We’ll also celebrate Communion, hear and sing some lovely music, and celebrate the gifts of love that are offered to us during this special and holy season. I look forward to seeing you on Sunday, and pray that the days to come will be filled with many rich blessings for you and those you love.

Among other things, December is the season for Christmas pageants.  And every year at this time I recall some of the ones I’ve been involved in, be it as a participant or director.  They’ve ranged from the sophisticated to the simple. 

But they’ve all featured cute little angels who’ve been dressed in white and adorned with wings and halos.  And their presence reminds us that angels feature prominently in all the stories of Jesus’ birth.

So we’re going to focus on angels this coming Sunday morning.  We’ll pay particular attention to the angel Gabriel – the messenger who helped Zechariah, Joseph and Mary get ready to the gift that changed the world.  And we’ll ponder how we hear and respond to the divine, sometimes life-changing messages that come to us.  So I hope to see you on Sunday!